Music is the universal language that can unite people. Likewise, it can become a nice tool to impress your date. In the previous post, we shared how to invite your bae to a festival and make it a perfect date. Today, we want to give some more ideas on how music makes you closer to your partner.
#1. Learn about your partner’s tastes
Though music can be a perfect thing to unite people, you need to know the preferences of your partner to make this surprise really nice. Check your partner’s favorite playlists, and think about their favorite artists, genres, and songs. If you don’t want to ask directly, you can check this information on their social media profiles.
#2. Create a special mood with this music
You can use your knowledge about your partner’s preferences to create a music playlist for a romantic date. Take this into account while choosing the songs with the right tempo for a romantic dinner, dancing, spa night, or any other intimate and romantic activity.
#3. Make an impression with your music knowledge
If you know many music bands, composers, and styles, use this knowledge to make an impression on your partner. You can even make up a list of your favorite bands and soundtracks to share your tastes with your sweetheart. This can also be a nice way to start a conversation, especially if you find some things in common. Some interesting facts about your favorite bands will catch anyone’s attention even if your music tastes are different.
#4. Organize a music date
Music can be a perfect topic to discuss and learn more things about each other. Suggest your partner a music date. Both of you can make up a list of your favorite songs and then you can listen to things from each list one by one, talking about your tastes and thinking on which occasion you could use this music.
#5. Go to a music master-class
Learning something together with your partner can be a lot of fun. Go together to try an instrument that both of you have never tried before. You can try something classical like a piano, or go for a more extravagant and mystical experience with shamanic drums.
#6. Use music to express your feelings
Yep, we are all taught how to use our brains and logic, but then we often don’t manage to handle our emotions properly. Music can help us express our feelings and emotions. You can learn and sing a song with romantic lyrics or you can write a song yourself for your love partner.
#7. Share some memories connected to music
Music is with us in our hard and good moments. You can have a very intimate talk triggered by music if you let yourselves discuss the memories that music evokes in you. Sharing some deep emotions and memories makes people closer and helps them open their hearts to each other.
#8. Go to a music event
Music can be a reason for traveling together. Pick a music festival and plan a small vacation to go there. Festivals bring a lot of emotion and become memories that you will share for a long time together. Just make sure that you take everything needed with you and keep in a good mood.
#9. Be open to new music
Well, the most obvious understanding of this tip is to stay indeed open and avoid criticizing your partner for their tastes. Though music preferences are a less sensitive topic, it can still hurt someone if you say bad things about their preferred bands. If you like the music that your partner showed you, try more of it or experiment with other bands and singers who create in the same genre. This can help you surprise your partner in a good way. In addition, you can really start exploring totally new instruments and genres. Try Indian, African, ethnic, electronic, and classical music. Music is the whole world of feelings and emotions if you are open and willing to explore it.
#10. Use music to play with emotions
You can choose different music depending on what emotions you want to create or feel. Say, you are planning an intimate and romantic dinner. Choose relaxing calm music that will not let you stay in silence but at the same time won’t distract you from each other. If you want to make the evening more energetic and passionate, choose something like rock, r&b, Latin, or jazz. If you want to share intimate things and discuss something personal, choose music that has a calm melody and maybe even sad lyrics. Such songs always trigger us to share something deep.